For Parents and Family Members
If you are the parents or family members of a Black disabled student, you probably have plenty of questions about college, too. Here are some resources to get you started, whether your son or daughter is in high school or college.
We also encourage you to check out the Clearinghouse at the National Center for College Students with Disabilities.
Tips for Families
1. Work with your child to create a timeline for college planning
We also encourage you to check out the Clearinghouse at the National Center for College Students with Disabilities.
Tips for Families
1. Work with your child to create a timeline for college planning
- Check out these college planning resources here, including videos.
- Utilize online resources that can help with the transition to college (look under "transition" in the list of topics).
- Be sure you get your child tested for a disability before they leave high school. Colleges will require that all students bring medical documentation of their disability (not just an IEP or school documents). Colleges will also ask you to pay out of pocket, but high schools won't.
- If your child has a 504 plan, an Individualized Education Program (IEP), or is getting special education services, you can ask for college planning ("transition planning") to start as soon as your child is 16 years old, and some schools even start at age 14.
- Learn about what other parents have done to prepare their children with disabilities for college.
- Learn about the differences between high school and college for students with disabilities, and then start thinking about ways you and your child can prepare for those changes now.
- A small community college in a rural area with one person running disability services might have more to offer than the huge disability services office at an Ivy League university.
- Help your child find a few good options and then do some investigating into the disability services office to see if they know what they're doing. Read our tip sheet for planning college visits, with recommendations for interviewing disability services offices during a campus visit.
- If you aren't impressed, the person in charge doesn't have much experience, or you don't trust the disability services office, then your son or daughter needs to decide if it will be worth fighting about services for four years, or whether it would be better going someplace else. Sometimes students will decide a college is worth any inconvenience, and other times they will need to find good disability services so they can focus on academics and not worry about disability issues.
- If you are checking out HBCUs, be sure to see our list of disability services offices at HBCUs.
- Community college and many universities have remedial courses if a student's grades are not good.
- Some offer intensive programs just for students who are autistic or dyslexic (although these may charge fees for their services).
- Gallaudet University, the National Technical Institute for the Deaf (NTID), Beacon College, and Landmark College are entire campuses set up for students with specific disabilities.
- Even if your child has an intellectual disability like Down's Syndrome, there are still college options - she might be able to audit college courses on some campuses (auditing is taking the course without full credit).
- Be cautious, however, about your son or daughter entering the military - while this has helped many students get money for college, students should know that they will generally not be allowed to take medications for ADHD and other disabilities, making success in the military very difficult.
- Be sure you fill out a FAFSA - almost all college financial aid decisions are made based on this one form.
- There aren't many scholarships out there for disabled students, but there are also low-interest grants and campus work-study options.
- Force campuses to be honest about how much college really costs - the "sticker price" for tuition is never true.
- Some very expensive schools can offer a lot of financial aid support and a cheap education, while some cheaper schools will cost a great deal because they can't help families pay for very much.
- College Navigator has the most accurate and updated information about financial aid, including tools to determine the costs of college.
- If your son or daughter is offered a scholarship or financial aid, read contracts carefully - for example, the NCAA has many rules about disability and medication usage that may be different than what the college requires, including rules about test accommodations and the use of medications.
- Finally, know that some students may qualify for financial aid accommodations, like full-time aid with a reduced credit load or inclusion of expensive disability-related needs when the college calculates financial aid needs.
- Talk with the college financial aid office about your specific circumstances.
- Seek advice about how to ease the transition and support students' well-being, especially if your child has mental health issues.
- Remember that the college and disability services will not be able to share private information with you (like your child's grades, which services he is getting, etc.) due to a law called FERPA. If this worries you, talk it over with your child early.
- Consider asking him to sign a release of information for you to talk to people, or developing a contract with you if you're worried about him keeping in touch about their health, mental state, academics, etc.
- Click here to see a sample contract for suicide prevention and mental health support - it can easily be adjusted for other issues like care of equipment, communicating with parents, or other issues of concern. (The link will download a Word document.)
- Be sure your child's phone has crisis resources (or a link to them), so these can be accessed if your child needs them - but also if your child's friends need them.
- Most college students use the computer and Internet on a daily basis for writing papers, e-mail, course registration, keeping in touch with professors and other students, etc.
- Almost all college courses have websites where students need to download readings and upload their homework.
- The more "tech savvy" your child is, the better she will do in college.
- "I want you to go to college" isn't enough.
- Be clear about whether you'd like him to stay near home, go to someplace that is really disability friendly, or attend an HBCU or a place that will offer certain programs or courses.
- Be honest if you're worried about paying for it, his ability to handle the freedom or stress, or if you have other concerns.
- All of these discussions are likely to factor into his choices about college, even if it may not seem like it's making a difference.
- Even if you went to college, you probably didn't go to college with a disability. That means your child's experiences of being Black and disabled in college is going to be new for both of you.
- Learn about disability and disability history so you can share this information with others. Also be ready to tell your child about other Black and African American people with disabilities who graduated from college.